by James Marten8 July
Thrust And Receive
She’s a sought-after project manager and he’s a passionate stay-at-home dad. The woman tells me they have a good marriage and love their young children. Financially, the couple are well off, enjoy various hobbies, and have seemingly meaningful friendships. Despite being happy on paper, she’s grown increasingly irritable and easily agitated, and it’s affecting her relationship. “It’s as though I’m brimming with rage,” she tells me, and adds, “It can be over the smallest of issues. Sometimes I get so fixated on things; it’s hard to let them go.” With desperation in her eyes, she asks, “Is it perimenopause? I think I may have ADHD or OCD?” Before I have the chance to respond, she interjects with, “Maybe it’s anxiety or depression? I need to know so I can fix it.”